How to Respond to Unrequited Love [good and best]

 How to Respond to Unrequited Love [good and best],Whether its someone you have never been with or someone losing attraction for you, to win an 'Unrequited Love' there are key differences from winning someone in the first place. Read on...

  • Dear Friend,
  • Do you pine or long for someone who's not feeling the same way?
  • Is there someone you're dating, with, or were dating who is now becoming distant and you think you're losing her?
  • Is there someone you would love to have but just can't seem to get her?
  • Is there someone you think about constantly?
  • Are you 'just friends' with someone you want more with?
  • Has she told you something like "You're a nice guy. I just have a lot of stuff going on right now".
  • Are you sick of just waiting for her to notice you and what a great guy you are?
  • Are you sick of feeling powerless to 'make' her want to be with you?
  • Maybe you've been in this position before and want to prevent it from happening again.
  • Do you wonder:
  • Is she spending time with someone else?
  • Am I 'below' her?
  • Not H
Not Having Her Sucks

    Let me guess...You think about her constantly. She is so beautiful and everything she does is so right. Its almost frustrating how good she is.

      Sometimes you think about you and her doing things together, sometimes you wonder if she's spending time with someone else. Maybe you bring her name up in converstaion with your friends or family.

          Maybe you've asked your friends for advise...and surprise surprise it was useless advise.

              You want her so much...

                  You would be such a good boyfriend too. Kind, caring, loving. Just one problem. She doesn't want you.

                      It can become all consuming. Constantly thinking up new ways to approach it and win her over.

                          "Maybe if I call and tell her that I really care for her".

                              "Maybe if I call and act aloof and tell a couple of jokes and then end the call first".

                                  "Maybe I wont call her at all and she'll start thinking of me".

                                      Constantly coming up with game plans that you know at some level really aren't going to work.

                                          Once it gets to this stage its too late for a few 'gambits' to win her.

                                              Maybe this has happened to you before. Perhaps even with someone who at the start was into you but she lost attraction for you along the way...

                                                  "You're a nice guy but I just have a lot going on right now. My work is getting crazy and I'm not sure what I want right now".

                                                      Ok. Right.

                                                          If she feels a strong attraction to you she will walk on hot coals for just one more kiss from you of an evening.

                                                              So unless she's solely responsible for world peace and the fate of the world will be determined by her actions over the next 6 months she aint too busy, and she does know whats going on: She isn't attracted to you. That's whats going on.

                                                                  You know how I know this situation.

                                                                      Because its happened to me. It used to at least. Many times. It's one of the most frustrating things in life. Wanting to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.

                                                                      The horrible thing is, she wants to be with someone....

                                                                      The evolutionary and biological urge to procreate is the strongest urge that humans have. She is a human and she has this urge too.
                                                                      She really wants to be with someone. Its just not you...yet.
                                                                      She is looking for someone. If you wait, she will find someone. Someone else.
                                                                      Maybe she's already dating other guys. Maybe she's sleeping with other guys.
                                                                      If she's not now, she will be soon enough.

                                                                      To Win An 'Unrequited Love' There Are Key Differences From Winning Someone In The First Place...There Are Secrets

                                                                      Winning over someone who initially hasn't gone for you, or is losing their attraction and need for you, is very different from getting someone in the first place.


                                                                      There are a few key things you need to do, otherwise you wont win her over.


                                                                      When you first meet someone you have a clean slate.


                                                                      If you initially meet someone, say at a bar, you can walk up with a fake confidence even though you're scared to death inside, smile, throw out a funny joke or some other gambit and escalate, get a phone number and away you go.


                                                                      If she's losing attraction for you or has met you and isn't interested 'in that kind of way' you could deliver jokes to her as well as Jerry Seinfeld, but this aint going to change her mind. Its at a much deeper level than that that you'll have to change her.


                                                                      The sad reality is that most guys never get the woman they truly want. The one they truly pine for evades them. They just don't know how to win her over.


                                                                      Most guys just think either:

                                                                       1. "Well, I gave it a shot. I guess I'll just never have her".


                                                                      Or...


                                                                            2. Or more commonly someone else comes along who they like, but don't feel anywhere near the same for her and they just accept fate and be with this new woman.


                                                                       Thing is...


                                                                      Without knowing the secrets to winning over an unrequited love its near impossible.


                                                                      You know the movies where the guy pines over the woman and she never realises what she had there all along and they eventually get together. Isn't that nice.


                                                                      Reality check. Its Hollywood. And they make these movies because they know this is what you really want to happen. Its not reality. Its a movie. It aint going to happen.


                                                                      And, using normal 'pick-up' material isn't going to work either. There are specific differences to win over an unrequited love as compared to a new love.


                                                                      But don't worry. I've discovered the secrets of how to actually win her over.


                                                                      The hard way. The very hard way...read on...


                                                                      Just Forget Her? No thanks.

                                                                      Some will offer the advise: "Just forget about her. There are plenty of fish in the sea".


                                                                      Or "Just be yourself. She'll come to her senses".


                                                                      Or "You're better off starting afresh with another. Its too hard to get someone once they're switched off".


                                                                      Well..."Forget her? Why. I don't want to. I want her".


                                                                      You don't want to just forget her and settle for someone you like but you'd rather be with someone else. A lot of guys just leave it and it never works out with the women they're really interested in.


                                                                      Where there's a will there's a way.


                                                                      Creating world peace. Stopping climate change. Climing Everest blind.


                                                                      These are hard things to do.


                                                                      You're not trying to land a man on the moon or create an invention that will transform the world as we know it today. Its a lot simpler than that.


                                                                      You just want to get the girl.


                                                                      "Its too hard once they're not into you"??? Wrong.


                                                                      Maybe you think "If I'd just called her less often, maybe she'd think I'm not so needy. Should I call now?" or maybe you think that wearing the blue shirt instead of the green shirt will work.


                                                                      This surface level stuff has virtually no effect. Women go out with guys with blue and green shirts and you know that this will make no difference at all really.


                                                                      But it is possible to win someone over after they initially don't want you. I've done it. Many of my clients have done it. Like anything else you just need to know the steps to take, and then take them.


                                                                      But its not something many people know how to do. To turn around the feelings of another person really took me a long time to learn how to do.


                                                                      I've discovered the secrets of how to do it.


                                                                      Once you know how to do it you never need pine or long for someone again. In fact it will put you in the drivers seat with this and all future relationships. If a girl likes you off the start great. If she doesn't...thats fine too. Just apply what you're going to learn here and you can have her.


                                                                        This gives you true freedom in choosing partners then. You're not just limited to those women who like you straight up. You can have who ever you want.

                                                                        Feelings Have  A Cause

                                                                        Attraction, love, lust and so on are all feelings.


                                                                        Feelings that have a cause. Your behaviours to this point have caused her to feel the way she does now. If there is a change in your behaviour there will be a change in the way that she feels about you.


                                                                        As an example...if you changed your behaviour to walking around with your pants around your ankles yelling "I'm a baby and I need my diaper changed" do you think the way she, and everyone else, feels towards you would change? Of course it would.


                                                                        So what behaviours do you need to exhibit in order to make her feel love, lust, attraction, wanting, needing and all the feelings for you that you want her to when she isn't at the moment? Hint: its not the one above. It will cause feelings of 'get the heck away from me'. You're probably smart enough to know that.


                                                                        But you currently don't know what the behaviors are that will cause her to feel the way you want her to. If you did, you'd already be doing them and already have her as yours. Once you change your behaviours you will change the way she feels towards you and she will be yours.


                                                                        These feelings can be turned on. Once their off or going off the way you need to turn them on is very different from turning them on in the first place. Its not necessarily harder, but it is different.

                                                                        When You Change, She Will Change

                                                                        What you're doing now isn't working.

                                                                        There's no use in keeping on doing it. If you do, you'll just get more of the same.

                                                                        You need to learn what behaviours will cause her to feel the way you want her to and then exhibiting those behaviours.

                                                                        You will need to make a change. If you just continue to do what you're doing you will just reap more of the same. More of her not wanting you and not feeling for you. More of her spending time with other people over and above you. More of her being 'busy'. More time without her. You need to change to change her.

                                                                        In order to change your behaviours you will need to change from the inside out. Once you change your ínner game' as its called, then the behaviours that you need to exhibit will come quite naturally.

                                                                        But you will also simply need to know exactly what behaviours to exhibit to get her. I'll show you how to do both.


                                                                        It is possible to win the heart of the one you truly want, even when they don't want you...yet. Stop wishing things were different and start creating the relationship you want, with the one you want...

                                                                        What I'm saying is this

                                                                        "You know that girl you really want but can't have. I can show you how to get her."
                                                                        If you don't get her, I'll give you your money back.
                                                                        This stuff is so predictable that I know it will work. Its automatic. She doesn't decide who to want. Its a gut level feeling that's turned on by certain behaviours.
                                                                        These behaviours are diffrent to what you're doing now and they're different to the ones you need to exhibit when you first meet a woman.
                                                                        Just learn what they are, do them, and thank me later.


                                                                        Win Your Unrequited Love

                                                                        What you're doing right now that virtually stop her from ever being able to want you. As soon as you stop these your chances go up immediately by stopping these behaviours alone.

                                                                        What you're doing right now that's basically driving her into the arms of another man, or other men. This hurts, but again as soon as you know what you're doing wrong you can stop it.
                                                                        The differences between attracting a woman at the start and when she hasn't intially fallen for you. This is key. You can win someone over after they haven't fallen for you straight off the bat, but you need to know the key differences and do them.
                                                                        The exact behaviours that will make her start to want you, be attracted to you and 'fall' for you even though she really doesn't now. Its automatic. She wont be able to help it.
                                                                        To get her to not want to see anyone else but you, and to see you as being the stand out guy in her life...ever. Someone special.
                                                                        The differences between winning someone over in the first place and after she has lost or never had attraction for you.
                                                                        To get her to feel physical attraction towards you even if she currently feels absolutely none. It can be truned on at any time. This is obviously important. Its what you want, and what she will want too.
                                                                        To get her to see you as being at, or even above, her 'level'. People tend to date and sleep with people they see as being at or above their 'level'.
                                                                        To get her to start actually chasing you. This is easier than you think and you get it started almost straight away. Its really quite simple and has incredible effects.
                                                                        To erase anything 'dumb' you have already said or done that you think is causing her to not like you.
                                                                        How to use secret 'boyfriend/girlfriend language to develop a bond. Have you ever noticed couples seem to have their own language. That no one else understands? And thats just when you're around. When theey're alone its 10 fold and develops a strong bond between them.
                                                                        When to call her and what to say. You can't constantly call and say "I love you" but without contacting her she may never contact you. I'll show you how to contact her without seeming needy.
                                                                        How to get her to want to spend time with you.
                                                                        Stop her wanting to be with other men or even thinking about it.
                                                                        To get her to call you, email you and seek your attention.
                                                                        How to handle it when you just really want to call her and tell her you really want her.
                                                                        How to handle things when you see her out, at work, at a party etc.
                                                                        How to get her to think about you when you're not with her. This is gold. This is a huge secret to making people fall for you. Once she's doing this, she's yours.
                                                                        What to say and do when she says she's 'busy'. She's lying. When you meet someone you really want you'll do anything to be with them. You'll re-organise your schedule to make time for them.
                                                                        What to say and do when she tells you she's "got a lot going on and you're a nice guy but I just can't see anyone at the moment". Again...She's lying. When you meet someone you really want you'll do anything to be with them.
                                                                        Simply to get her to be yours. In the end this is what you want. To have her as yours. I'll show you exactly how to go about it...step by step. Just having a smile and being confident isn't going to work. You need a lot more than that and I will take you through it step by step.
                                                                        What to do, how to behave once she is yours and you're together. This is vital. Once she is dating you and wanting you remember how bad it felt not having her. You don't want to go back there do you?
                                                                        The exact action sequences that you'll need to take from Unrequited Love to Lover. I've put down a game plan for you that will work beyond your belief. Keep going with it though...even after she's yours.
                                                                        What isn't in the book:
                                                                        Look good, put on cologne and be confident. While this sort of generic advise is great, and true, it really is just common sense. I go much further into it than that with specifics on all the dot points above and much more...



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